As a Psychotherapist MPF I can support you and help you find new ways and perspectives. Maybe traumatic memories haunt you? Or an overwhelming anxiety?
What about couple's therapy?
Sure, that's a possibility :)
Emotion Focused Couples Therapy (EFT – C) - the Dynamics of Emotion, Love and Power - is about:
discovering specific dynamics, usually in the form of an interactional negative cycle which together as a couple you create and which against your wishes brings you further away from each other, out of contact
understanding the signals, you are sending that make it difficult for the other part to come close to you
working with what it is that “feeds” this cycle and share it with me and each other
constructing new ways of being together, new ways that strengthen you in showing love, care and respect for each other and bring you closer to each other.
In short: to move from being opponents to being allies 😊
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